Delay gratification

Gratification

The meanings of gratification is satisfaction with something. More accurately to say any intention of getting something reward and getting satisfaction.

There found different types of people concerning with gratification. Some peoples are found to aggressive with immediate achieving of reward and other person is found in delay gratification. Both two different types of people acquires two different life style.

It is very easy to identify the peoples with delay gratification or peoples with immediate gratification.

Let the people to see television and give him the remote control. Observe the behaviour of the people. You may find two different types of behaviour in two different types of people.

The people with behaviour of short time gratification will show aggressively changing of channels and usually most time stays in short period of programs, because he wants to satisfy in a short time.

The peoples with the behaviour of delay gratification usually does not changes channel if though the program is not very interesting and wait a while to find satisfaction.

Delay gratification involves with other human characteristics, such as patience, self control, willpower and cognitive affective personality system.

How a person can delay his gratification?

By controlling anxiety, procrastinate behaviour, attention deficit hyperactivity anyone can achieve delay gratification characteristics

Researchers of Standford University found that the peoples with delay gratification is more happy than the peoples with immediate gratification.

Funder and and Block in their psychoanalytic research found that impulsibility, the failure or lacking of control of ego defance system can lead short time gratification.

Cognitive affective personality system

Cognitive affective personality system concerned with Cool regulatory system and hot regulatory system.

Cool regulatory system

The peoples with cool regulatory system acquire with some human characteristics, such as calm, controlled strategies. Hence, peoples with cool regulatory system can achieves peace in life, ability to avoid aggressiveness, can thought effective way. They have a delay gratification characteristics.

Hot regulatory system

The peoples with hot regulatory system usually shows implausibility, emotion, and automatic progression. Peoples with hot regulatory system can not control their aggressiveness. Usually, they wants rewards immediately. Most of the hot regulatory system people suffers in anxiety, and other psychological and physical problem.

In terms of success in life, cool regulatory system peoples can do good than the hot regulatory system peoples.

By scanning of brain by Functional Magnetic Resonance Immaging there found an extraordinary result. High delayers uses cool regulation and activates their right prefrontal cortex of brain and peoples with immediate gratification uses hot regulation by activating ventral striatum.

Cyradian cycle and Health impact

Cyradian cycle

The term Cyradian cycle is concentrated with the time period of animals. Simply to say each animals follows a time scheduled work. A specific time is exist for sleep, eat and walk. Different animals follows different time schedule. Some animals chose day time to sleep and some animals chose night time to sleep. Whatever, the time to which animals are familiar with doing work this time schedule should maintain, otherwise health disorder is obvious.

Physiologists and psychologists define Cyradian cycle as a combined form of physiology and psychology.

If psychologically Cyradian cycle is defined, then it would be say the brain will prepare to do work in familiar time when the work is usually done for maximum time period. To do something, the first brain should be response to do this. Otherwise will happen nothing.

But brain knows the pre scheduled time. At that time brain stimulate to release responsible hormone to do the work. For example at night time maximum people go to sleep when he lay on the bed.

But if any cause the schedule is break down then a disorder happened. People suffers in health problem.

The people who do shifting work they suffers various types of health problem due to break down of Cyradian cycle.

No scheduled eating of meal may result in Gastro Intestinal tract disorder.

Fashion and irts impacts on human mind

There have a significant  relationship of fashion with the changing of human mind. In what degree it is real and true that may be measure.

I found a very interesting thing that is wearing of new dress changes the mind condition. From the childhood life humans are conscious about new dress. Dress is a unique want of people that can give enough pleasure.

Now, somethings are becoming clear about my childhood need. New dress was one of the greatest need that was usually gives me pleasure.

It was my everyday dream that my father isd offering me a new dress.

Its not a childhood behavior that, becoming proud after showing new dress to friend and neighbors, but this tendency is found clearly in elder people to becoming pkroud if he able to show his dress to others.

Now the question, is fashion is for others or for own? Each people want to become beautiful. Each people wants that other people will called him beautiful. Exactly, for this reason people became more found of fashion.

I found different segmented people are found with different types of fashion. The fashion of teenagers is not same as the fashion of elders. The behavior of elders are significantly different with the teenagers.

Another things are very clear that If same people are give two different types of dress in two different time of the day and if the behavior of the people is observed, then it will be found that he is behaving in different way in same day.

Honesty vs Integrity

Honesty

Honesty is a kind of human trait that gives people virtue and differentiate them from others. To defining honesty of human behaviour is too much difficult. But, Simply honesty may called as a habit. Most of the psychologists and motivator defined honesty as just normal a habit of good practise. Honesty comes eternally based on habitual traits without having any consciousness.

Truthfulness is a such kind of good traits of a human that makes the people trustworthy to others and finally increases the acceptance of himself to other peoples. Someone always speak truth, never tale a lie. How you will define his trait about? Honesty? or Integrity?

If the people speaks truth unconsciously, habitually and without thinking anything about " he loves to speak truth or not?" Even, Thinking about to telling lie and its results into a great sin that may lead him to hale. If he speaks truth nothing thinking about it is right or wrong, then the virtue of the people may be termed as Honesty.

Integrity

Integrity is similar things as honesty, but it may be more than that of honesty. Integrity is a straightforward differentiating between good or bad. What is right? and What is wrong?

Integrity may defined as introducing good practise into life on the straightforward basis of right and wrong.

A people speaks truth and never tell a lie, because, he knows telling a lie is wrong practise. Hence, he decided never not to tell a lie in any situation. And finally he introduced a good practise of telling truth in his life. In this case, These people may termed as integral people.

An interesting story you may know about. Once a teacher asked a student in his class that what you will do if you look a lost money bag on ground where you are passing away? The replied quickly, If nobody look at him then he will pick up it and will spend it for next few days pocket money cost. Then The teacher loudly appreciate the student and said "Very nice". You are honest, you are not integral. Speak in truth is your habit, but you do not know which is right and which is wrong.