Husband and wife is a legal relationship in order to continuing yhe flow of hereditary and reproduction of next generation. This relationship is consists of love and trust. Besides of love and trust there need responsibilities. But unfortunately it is found that these relationship is getting complex in all over the world. Why is happening this. The number of broken structure of families are increasing. First is that trust is becoming so difficult. You may find a lot of couples where have love but no trust. Even, after spending a long period they can not trust each other. If there have large enough love a bad things happens between themselves. They wants to control each other. This tendency grows for the thurst of empowerment. Empowerment is a psychological need of every human beings. Mosley's needs theorem shows that empowerment is a basic needs of human beings. Man wants that someone will honor him. To become honourable is good but for honour when someone pressure someone that he is an honourable person, hence someone have to honour him. It is one kind of oppression. For the thurst of empowerment bad people tries to control others. But it should be in clear understanding that freedom is the natural need of human beings. Birds wants to fly into open sky. Fishes wants to swim into water. If there happen any kinds of sequence in a relationship that one of the people is trying to controlling others, there love started to reduce.
Another very important things that start from the start of a married life that is dissatisfaction. Dissatisfaction comes from highest level of ambition and some of the case greedy terms. It will be wrong if it define ambition clearly. Greedy and ambition hits on the mind that if he tried better of if he take time to get married it may be happen that more smart and beautiful people would his life partner. This cause more dissatisfaction in a couple life. This dissatisfaction drives to complexity in family.
To reduce the complexity it is important to reduce these key factors. Be trust with each other. Be helpful to each other. Become satisfied with each other. Love each other and be responsible. Never try to control other.
Another very important things that start from the start of a married life that is dissatisfaction. Dissatisfaction comes from highest level of ambition and some of the case greedy terms. It will be wrong if it define ambition clearly. Greedy and ambition hits on the mind that if he tried better of if he take time to get married it may be happen that more smart and beautiful people would his life partner. This cause more dissatisfaction in a couple life. This dissatisfaction drives to complexity in family.
To reduce the complexity it is important to reduce these key factors. Be trust with each other. Be helpful to each other. Become satisfied with each other. Love each other and be responsible. Never try to control other.
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